tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3670307799281384536.post6952211319782446703..comments2023-10-20T06:28:50.312-04:00Comments on Zen and the Art of the Midlife Crisis: Collision of Mars and VenusAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04952442938347357506noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3670307799281384536.post-18422857265709973452009-01-03T19:07:00.000-05:002009-01-03T19:07:00.000-05:00Kip you said," Had I maintained a better balance i...Kip you said," Had I maintained a better balance in these years, perhaps I might have been more true to my marriage and career."<BR/>You can if only yourself to death. Don't go there. Reflection for growth is good, but to go back to "if only" ourselves, ends up bringing on pain with no gain. You wouldn't have done it differently then anyway because of where you were on your path. Now, furtherAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3670307799281384536.post-55792607784271510782009-01-03T06:08:00.000-05:002009-01-03T06:08:00.000-05:00we're only really 'living' a half-life. Darn it, ...we're only really 'living' a half-life. Darn it, I hate it when I make typos *lol*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3670307799281384536.post-38330216700166465192009-01-03T06:07:00.000-05:002009-01-03T06:07:00.000-05:00Kip: I don't think it's possible to live a truly g...Kip: I don't think it's possible to live a truly genuine life when we're giving so much of ourselves to others. It's so very important for our own 'self' and the relationships surrounding us that we're able to nurture our own spirits fully. While we're unable or unwilling to do this, for fear of hurting or offending others, we're only really life a 'half' life.<BR/><BR/>I'm so happy for you Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3670307799281384536.post-1625883038492564192009-01-02T15:37:00.000-05:002009-01-02T15:37:00.000-05:00That's a great idea! I have encouraged Chris to p...That's a great idea! <BR/><BR/>I have encouraged Chris to play more volleyball. (His passion as a youth.) You would not believe how much of an impact it has on him. If I'd known then what I know now, he would have been involved in V-ball 5 years ago.<BR/><BR/>P.S. It even effects the way he is in bed. ... !!! ... So, yes, I am SO a fan of the more action + more men.persistentillusionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05591110029555660905noreply@blogger.com